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Liebenbe g, P. J.
A icle
Nego ia ing echniques
Sou h A ican Jou nal o Business Managemen
P o ided in Coope a ion wi h:
Uni e si y o S ellenbosch Business School (USB), Bell ille, Sou h A ica
Sugges ed Ci a ion: Liebenbe g, P. J. (1983) : Nego ia ing echniques, Sou h A ican Jou nal o
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eg e wesenlik ande s as die o ige bedeling. So ook
is
die
aa d an die aanspo ings, wa baie mee sin i die belegge -
sakeman as an e o e maak.
Daa moe dus
'n
heelwa g o e kans i die huidige
desen alisasiebeleid
wees
om be e esul a e e behaal. Di
is
eg e gebiedend noodsaaklik da die On wikkelingsbank
ges al e k y en begin unksionee . Ve de sal die poli ieke
dialoog binne die aamwe k an
'n
kons ellasie an Suide -
A ikaanse s a e in ens en ge eeld moe oo gaan.
Bo
alles
sal daa
'n
geloo by al die moon like be okkenes geskep
moe wo d da di bie we klik om
'n
lang e myns a egie
gaan wa ge eeld wee gee aluee en, waa nodig, aangepas
sal wo d
en
wa e sel de yd ook me die Republiek an
Suid-A ika
se
on wikkelings a egie inge asee
is.
Koo dinasie an beslui e, ui sp ake en op ede in hie die
e band deu alle be okke ege ingsleie s
is
absoluu nood-
saaklik i goeie esul a e. Die in es e ingsbeslui e wa
geneem sal wo d, skep be okkenheid en be e doen me
isiko's wa oo be eklik
Jang
e myne s ek. Om
'n
hoe
pe sen asie an daa die beslui e posi ie e laa ui d aai, sal
die s eekson wikkelings a egie en die nywe heidsdesen ali-
sasiebeleid aliyd die hoogs e ma e an geloo waa digheid
moe he; en di sal boonop
'n
sigba e geloo waa digheid
moe
wees.
Nego ia ing
echniques
P.J.
Liebenbe g
Execu i e Chai man, Finansbank Limi ed
Add ess deli e ed by M .
P.J.
Liebenbe g, Execu i e
chai man, Finansbank Limi ed, Johannesbu g.
Hen y Kissinge who
is
p obably one
o
he mos ex-
pe ienced nego ia o s in he wo ld
is
on eco d as saying,
' he
way nego ia ions a e ca ied
ou
is
almos as impo -
an as wha
is
being nego ia ed.'
I p opose oday o discuss he
way
nego ia ions should
be unde aken bu
a
he ou se I mus make i pe ec ly
clea ha he e
is
no simple way, no de ini i e one way,
no absolu e way because al hough di e en nego ia ions
migh e eal common pa e ns e e y nego ia ion
is
di e en .
These di e ences a ise no only om he ac
ha
e e y
business deal
is
a new en u e wi h i s own cha ac e is ics
bu also because in he p ocess
o
nego ia ing one
is
deal-
ing wi h di e en people, people wi h hei own pe -
sonali ies, cha ac e is ics, manne isms, wis s
o
mind. The
many pe mu a ions which all hese ac o s b ing abou mean
ha e e y nego ia ion
is
a new expe ience and he big ad-
an age which an accomplished nego ia o has o e he un-
ied nego ia o
is
ha he has de eloped an in ui ion which
enables him o an icipa e, o be lexible and o ecognize
he men al p ocesses
o
he people he
is
dealing wi h.
The e o e, I canno gi e you
an
ABC in he
a
o
nego ia ion. The e
is
simply no way whe eby I can impa
S.-A .
Tydsk . Bed y sl.
198J,
l4{l)
o you su icien knowledge o enable you o
become
suc-
cess ul nego ia o s in
one
easy lesson. All ha I
can
do
is
ou line basic p inciples which I hope
will
be
o
help
o
you
should you ind you sel es as pa
o
he nego ia ing
p o-
cess in he
b oad
ield
o
me ge s and acquisi ions.
No nego ia ion can ake place, le alone succeed,
unless
he g ound wo k has been done and unless one
is
ho oughly
schooled in he need o p epa e one's case.
The i s s ep
ha
a nego ia o mus be able o
do
is
o
iden i y wha he basic ac s a e. Wha do you
eally
wan
ou
o
he nego ia ion and a all imi:s hese basics
mus
be
clea ly held in
one's
mind
and
ne e los sigh o .
This
un-
damen al p inciple applies wi h equal emphasis
whe he
one
is
he agg esso
o
he ic im in a akeo e si ua ion.
Be o e you go anywhe e nea he nego ia ing
oom
you
mus examine you case and clea ly iden i y you
s eng hs
and you weaknesses. The e
is
ne e a nego ia ion
wi h
one
single clea -cu p oposi ion. The e is,
o
cou se,
one
de ini i e end -
o
buy
and
o
sell -and in he end
esul
a nego ia ion hinges
on
p ice. How much he
agg esso
o
buye
is
p epa ed o pay and a wha p ice he
selle
is
p epa ed
o
elinquish his p ope y. Bu hese ac o s
o en
a e hedged in wi h a la ge numbe
o
side issues and
i
is
impe a i e
ha
he nego ia o clea s his mind so ha
in
ecognizing he side issues he ne e loses sigh
o
he
main
pu pose.
I make a p ac ice
o
lis ing all he poin s in ol ed.
Those
which appea ele an and hose which migh appea
no
o be so ele an . These poin s mus be s udied
ca e ully
so
ha
by a p ocess
o
elimina ion hose ac o s
which
a e
impo an
and
basic
o
he deal a e gi en p io i y.
The
es
mus be ecognized, pe haps used as nego ia ing
coun e s
o
disca ded as concessions as he nego ia ion goes
h ough
i s a ious s ages
o
de elopmen .
I
is
necessa y no only o examine you own
case
bu
o y o iden i y you opposi ion's posi ion as clea ly
as
you own.
On
he
o he
hand
one
mus ne e en e a
nego ia ing oom wi h
any
sha p p econcei ed ideas abou
he opposi ion case. While you a e looking o
his
s eng hs
and
weaknesses you mus cons an ly be awa e ha
hese
can change in he en i onmen
o
he nego ia ing
p ocess.
You mus be p epa ed o be lexible, no only in
nego ia-
ion bu also in he a i udes you migh ha e o adop
in
he cou se
o
nego ia ion.
When you ha e made you lis s
o
s eng hs and
weaknes-
ses
and
when you ha e made you lis s
o
p io i ies -
in
you case as well as
ha
o you opponen -
i
is
use ul
o discuss he deal wi h you p incipal, wi h you
colleagues,
no only o cla i y you own hinking, bu also o go
h ough
an
in o mal game play so
ha
you a i ude o he deal
is
sha pened. This enables you
o
see you objec i es in
clea
pe spec i e so ha you can de elop he pe suasi e
a gumen s which a e pa and pa cel
o
he nego ia ing
p o-
cess. While, as I ha e said, no wo nego ia ions a e
alike,
his game play enables
one
o
ecognize p eceden s ha
migh be applicable in he ask a hand.
I should be emembe ed
ha
one
ne e goes o
he
nego ia ing able wi hou some p elimina y s eps ha ing
al eady been aken. No nego ia ion s a s cold.
These
p elimina y s eps show clea ly whe he he posibili ies
exis
S.
A ,
J.
Bus.
Mgm . 1983, 14(1)
o a deal.
I 's
ei he
on
o
i 's
o .
And
i
i is
on
i
means
ha
bo h
pa ies
a e
p epa ed
o
alk,
bo h
pa ies ha e
es ablished
ha
hey
ha e
some hing
in
common,
ha
bo h
pa ies
a e
in e es ed in inding
some
common
solu ion
which
is
ag eeable
o
bo h.
In
o he
wo ds
he e
a e
ce ain
b oad
pa ame e s
in which
one
can
wo k.
A
he
ou se
i
migh seem
ha
hese
a e
wo
poin s
a
ei he
end
o
he
diame e
o
a ci cle
and
he
cou se
and
end
o
nego ia-
ion
is
o
y
o
b ing
hem
close oge he .
To
accomplish
his he e
mus
be
gi e
and
ake.
I
migh
be
in
he
cash
elemen , i migh
be
in
he
pe sonali ies in ol ed, i migh
be
in
he handling
o
s a .
The e
a e
many
a eas which ha e
o
be
explo ed.
Some
o
hese
migh
be
side issues,
some
o
hese migh
be
ge mane
o
he
p inciples
unde
discus-
sion. This
is
why i is
so
essen ial always
o
keep
one's
basic
objec i es in
mind
so
ha
one
is
no
bogged
down
in a
discussion
o
side issues which
migh
assume
a alse impo -
ance
i
one
is
no
ca e ul.
Usually
he
i s
ound
o
alks
in
any
nego ia ion is a
p elimina y s a ing
o
iews
and
es ing
o
pe sonali ies. This
is
e y much like
he
i s
ound
in
a boxing
ma ch
in which
he opponen s
a e
sizing
each
o he
up,
es ing each
o he 's
skills, ac ics, de ences
and
gene ally measu ing
up
he wo h
o
he
o he
man.
Bo h
sides
s a e
hei
cases in
b oad
ou line. I is a
o mal
mee ing,
an
explo a o y
mee ing,
usually wi h
no
gi e
and
ake
and
e y
o en
ends
on
a
no e
which indica es
ha
he e
is a
p oposi ion
o
nego ia e
and
ha each side will
examine
he
iewpoin s
o
he
o he .
I
is
om his s age
on
ha
he
ole
o
he
nego ia o
becomes
in ense. A ising
om
he
p elimina y
discussion he
mus
y o asce ain exac ly
wha
he
o he
side is looking o .
He mus
adjus
his
p e-nego ia ion
s ance
o
wha
he
o he
side eally
wan s
as
opposed
o
wha
he
hough
hey
migh
wan
and
he
mus
p epa e
himsel
o
he
second
ound
o
alks which is
o en
c ucial
al hough
i is e y
a e
ha
i
could become de ini i e.
Because
he
ini ial
s ages
o
nego ia ion
a e
en a i e I
do no belie e
ha
my
clien
should
pa icipa e
pe sonally.
I ind
ha
he e
a e
many
ad an ages
in keeping
him
in
he
backg ound.
The e
a e
many
easons
o
his. Le
me
men-
ion a ew.
Fi s , as a
nego ia o
I
p e e
o
handle
he
discussions
e en
hough
I
migh
ha e
colleagues wi h
me
o
cla i y
any
echnical poin s
ha
migh
a ise. I
he
clien is p esen he e
is
always
he
endency
o
he
o he
side
o
add ess him
and
i he
is
no
expe ienced in
he
a
o
nego ia ion
he
migh
be
d awn
in o
discussions
which
could
esul in
an
unwa -
an ed concession
being
made.
The e is
ano he
impo an
ac o
ha
always
has
o
be
aken in o
accoun .
One's
clien is
emo ionally
in ol ed in
any nego ia ion.
He
s ands
o
gain
o
lose
and
a
all imes
he
is
inclined
o
be
subjec i e.
This
is
one
weakness
ha
mus ne e
be
allowed
o
eme ge
in
he
nego ia ing p ocess.
Subjec i i y
can
be
dange ous
because
one
loses con ol
and
emo ions migh
su ace
a
a
ime
when
objec i i y is
he
name
o
he
game.
A
no
ime
da e
he
nego ia o
lose
ob-
jec i i y.
He
mus
keep his objec i es always in
he
o e pa
o
his mind.
He
mus
lis en
o
he
a gumen s
o
his
op-
ponen s wi h cold
and
analy ical concen a ion
and
measu e
hem
up
agains his
own
lis
o
p io i ies.
He
mus
ne e
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be
o e eage
and
appea
eady
o
make
concessions
a
an
inapp op ia e
ime.
The
clien
on
he
o he
hand
sensing
ic o y migh blu
ou
a p oposal which could
be
o
his
ul ima e disad an age.
I always eel
ha
i is
he
du y
o
he
p o essional
nego ia o
o
shield
and
p o ec his clien ,
no
only om
his own po en ial weaknesses, bu also om exposu e which
could
be
a se ious handicap
o
he ou come. In
any
case
i is a use ul nego ia ing echnique
o
be able
o
de e a
nego ia ion a a di icul momen by indica ing ha he poin
unde
discussion has
o
be
e e ed back
o
he
clien . This
is pa icula ly app op ia e when he opposi ion aises a new
poin
which equi es ca e ul s udy.
A e e ence back
o
he
clien can
make
a si ua ion
o
deadlock
appea
o
be
he oppo uni y o a u he mee ing
a he
han
he
deadlock
ha
i is.
No
ha
deadlock is
no
a use ul nego ia ing ploy.
I
is
a echnique which mus be
used wi h ca e
and
wi h disc imina ion. The e
a e
imes in
a nego ia ion pa icula ly when
one
eels
ha
one has
one's
opponen
in
he
co ne
ha
one
con i es
o
c ea e a
deadlock which will o ce
one's
ad e sa y
o
come back
again. I
can
e eal a weakness which
one
is ying
o
ex-
ploi . Bu I mus emphasize
ha
his is a de ice which only
he
skilled nego ia o
may
s a
o
use wi h ad an age.
Few nego ia ions p oceed smoo hly
and
quickly.
The
no -
mal pa e n can s e ch o e weeks, o en mon hs wi h e y
ew
nego ia ions unning easily owa ds a conclusion. I he
selle gi es in
oo
quickly
one
immedia ely s a s
o
wonde
wha
is he hiding?
Why
is he
oo
eage ? Is
he
buye pay-
ing
oo
high a p ice? Ve y o en a has ily concluded nego ia-
ion
can
come
uns uck.
I
is be e always
o
mo e pa ien -
ly owa ds a deal
and
hen away om i , owa ds
and
away,
again
and
again. In his way
he
o he
pa y
al e na es be-
ween he pleasu e
o
seeing his objec i e wi hin each
and
hen
he
anxie y
o
wa ching i slip away. I
is
a s a egy
ha
wo ks
bu
I mus wa n
ha
i does en ail isk
and
like
he
echnique
o
deadlock, judging he ex en
o
he
isk
is
pa
o
an
expe ienced nego ia o 's abili y.
I men ioned a ew momen s ago ha he e a e imes when
one
pushes
one's
opponen
in o a co ne . This
one
can
do
bu
one
mus
ne e allow
one's
ad e sa y
o
eel
apped.
A apped opponen migh walk away om a desi able deal
o
o ce him
in o
a empo a y ag eemen
ha
can
come
uns uck.
The
only ag eemen which holds as is
one
in
which
bo h
sides eel
ha
hey ha e concluded a bene icial
deal. They migh ha e s a ed
a
he
a ends
o
he
ci cle
and
by
a se ies
o
comp omises
and
concessions hey ha e
bo h
go
ou
o
i a ai measu e
o
wha hey
had
hoped
o
when nego ia ions
had
s a ed. Ne e lose sigh
o
he
ac
ha
in e e y nego ia ion
he
ou come is essen ially
one
o
comp omise
and
i is
up
o
he
nego ia o
o
e ec his
comp omise
o
he
bes in e es s
o
his clien .
When si ing
a ound
he nego ia ing able i
is
inad isable
o
do
all
he
alking. A
good
nego ia o mus
be
a
good
lis ene .
To
y
o
domina e
he
nego ia ing able wi h a
lood
o
wo ds
is
o
subme ge he
o he
side's poin
o
iew
and
only by hea ing
he
o he
side
ou
can
one
asce ain
he
eal ni y g i y
o
he
deal
unde
discussion.
No
only
mus he nego ia o
be
a
good
lis ene
bu
he mus also be
an
acu e
obse e .
He
mus
be
a s uden
o
body
language.
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He mus
be
able
o
iden i y om he o he side's acial
ex-
p essions, ges u es and changes
o
mood
whe he his
a gumen s ha e made a elling poin
o
no . The e a e many
imes when I ha e de ec ed an almos impe cep ible change
o
look
in
a pe son's eyes and ha e known ha a deal
is
on
i s way o a success ul conclusion.
By
he same oken
I ha e also judged by he same means ha a deal
is
doomed
o
ailu e.
I
is
h ough one's obse a ions
a
he nego ia ion able
ha one can ecognize whe he one
is
dealing wi h since e
people
o
in eg i y
o
whe he one
is
dealing wi h chance s
and ogues. No one should was e his ime wi h his la e
ype. Nego ia ion mus be ca ied
ou
by people who ha e
in eg i y, who say wha hey mean
and
who do no pe pe -
ually ake backwa d s eps. Ei he one
is
nego ia ing
on
a
p ac ical basis
o
one
is
no . The e mus be i m g ound.
I
is
almos impossible o deal wi h people who swi ch
and
change and who do no ha e hei objec i es clea ly in mind.
Du ing he cou se
o
he nego ia ion p ocess i
is
o en
ad isable o ei e a e om ime
o
ime he poin s
o
ag ee-
men . This no only ixes hese poin s i mly in
one's
op-
ponen 's mind bu i also enables he nego ia o o es a e
his basic objec i es
and
o
clea he ai
o
he many side
issues which a ise in e e y nego ia ion, e en when dealing
wi h people who a e skilled in he a .
I ha e said ha he good nego ia o knows how
o
keep
silen bu his does no mean ha he mus si like a dum-
my. On he con a y when he
is
no pu ing o wa d his own
a gumen s he mus lead he o he side so ha hey a e do-
ing he alking, bu hey a e alking o his dic a e. In o he
wo ds he e a e many ad an ages in posing ques ions. They
migh be gene al
o
speci ic ques ions, hey can be leading
ques ions o d aw poin s
o
iew
and o e eal wha he eal
objec i es
o
he o he side eally a e.
On
he o he hand,
one can pu ques ions ha demand a choice. The e
is
no hing so e ealing as
o
h ow p o oca i e ques ions
a
an
opponen
and
so o ce him o e eal his hand when he
is
o
gua d. The e ec i eness
o
ques ions in any nego ia-
ion a e di ec ly p opo iona e o he nego ia o 's expe ience
in using hem.
The in elligen asking
o
ques ions goes a long way
owa ds asce aining he eal needs
o
he opposi e side and
in
any nego ia ions one has o e e ou wha he o he side
eally needs. And he e
is
a ma ked di e en ia ion be ween
need and wan . Bo h pa ies in a nego ia ion wan he mos
hey can ge
ou
o
i bu need
is
a a lowe le el and wha
one mus aim o
is
o achie e need and sa is ac ion.
Nego ia ion p esupposes ha bo h nego ia o and his op-
pose wan some hing bu wha one has o aim a
is
o asce -
ain he eal needs
o
bo h pa ies.
To
asce ain hese eal needs
is
pa and pa cel
o
he ac-
ics ha one employs du ing he cou se
o
a nego ia ion.
As I ha e said, one asks ques ions -one p obes -one
ies o pene a e he de ences which you opponen aises
om ime o ime, e en
i
he
is
he agg esso , in o de o
conceal some
o
he ad an ages ha he wan s o ge
ou
o
he deal. Bu a nego ia ion canno succeed by employ-
ing ac ics alone.
One
mus ha e an o e all clea s a egy
in
mind. One mus go, like a gene al in o ba le, wi h a clea -
cu pe cep ion
o
aims, objec i es and how o ge he e. One
S.-A . Tydsk . Bed y sl.
1983,
l4(l)
mus know wha
one
is
p epa ed
o
yield and wha
asJ)CC s
o
a deal a e eally non-nego iable. Bu one mus
ne e
con-
cen a e
on
he
non-nego iable aspec s
o
he deal. I
one
did
no
nego ia ion would e e succeed. I
is
he
nego iable
elemen s
on
which
one
mus concen a e.
I
is
impe a i e
o be lexible in
he
choice
o
one's
ac ics. Tac ics
which
a e igh o
one
man
a e w ong o ano he . Tac ics
ha
migh be app op ia e o he s a
o
a nego ia ion
may
well
be unsui able la e on. The e mus be a con inuous
eassess-
men
o
he ac ics which
one
employs, and he
expe ienced
nego ia o , who has lea n
he
ick
o
wa ching
himsel
almos
a
a m's
leng h du ing nego ia ing sessions,
is
con-
inually analysing
he
e ec s
o
his ac ical ploys. Can
hey
be
changed? How
will
he o he pa y eac
o
in e p e
hese
ac ics? Will hey back i e
on
me?
The
choice
o
ac ics in ol es e hical ques ions.
Ends
do
no jus i y means in business
and
a
no ime
in
he
cou se
o
he nego ia ing p ocess
is
he e oom o
une hical
beha iou . Unless e hical
s anda ds
a e igidly main ained
he ul ima e goal can be des oyed. The e
is
a golden
ule
abou
employing ac ics: hey should ne e be used
unless
he nego ia o has conside ed
wha
coun e measu es
he
o he
man
is
likely
o
ake.
I
his eac ion
is
o ake
i
o
lea e i you migh each a poin
o
up u e and i
he
nego ia ion
is
desi able
one
does
no
wan
o
lose he
game
because
o
an
ill-conside ed mo e.
On
he
o he
hand
i
you
a e
an
expe ienced nego ia o
he e migh be a ime when you, ha ing es ablished
you sel
in a
dominan
posi ion, migh e e
o
he
' ake
i o
lea e
i ' ac ics. You migh eso
o
his de ice when you don'
wan
o
encou age
any
u he haggling abou nonessen ial
de ails,
o
when you ha e eached
he
ha d ock
basis
o
he
deal
and
you
canno
a o d
o
make any mo e
conces-
sions. Then you a e using
' ake
i
o
lea e i ' as you
las
wo d. Pe haps
an
app ecia ion
o
ake i
o
lea e
i
is
a
easonable illus a ion
o
how
o
employ he ac ical
ap-
p oach du ing
he
cou se
o
nego ia ion. And
when
he
o he side ies o use his s a egem, wha
is
you eac ion?
You can walk ou . You can ask you opponen s o pu
hei
o e in w i ing as a inal
o e
o ,
i
you
don'
wan
he
nego ia ion
o
all h ough, you
can
alk
on
as hough
you
ne e hea d i
a
all. T ace a cou se back
o
he poin
when
he o he side
appea
o
ha e
made
an
i e ocable
decision
and
skil ully you lead
he
opposi ion owa ds a
new
di ec-
ion. In o he wo ds you di e hem away om wha
migh
ha e been a b eakdown poin .
I ha e o en been asked whe he
one
uses di e en
s a e-
gies
and
di e en ac ics when ac ing as
he
agg esso
in
a nego ia ion om hose which
one
migh use when ac ing
as he counsel o he de endan . While he e a e ce ain
supe icial di e ences, he aim
o
he nego ia o
is
he
same
in
bo h
cases -
and
ha
is
o
ge he bes possible
deal.
When
one
is
planning in
he
akeo e si ua ion, one
knows
exac ly wha
one
wan s.
The
would-be buye
is
seeking
o
ake o e
o
me ge wi h
ano he
business o e y de ini e
easons.
One
is
looking o he immedia e acquisi ion o
asse s which could inc ease a business, enhance p oduc i e
acili ies
o
u he pene a e a ma ke wi hou he cos o
ime
ha
expanding
an
exis ing business would ake.
In
o he wo ds a e ha ing ho oughly s udied a si ua ion he
S.
A .
J. Bus. Mgm . 1983,
14(1)
agg esso goes
in o
a nego ia ion wi h clea ly de e mined
objec i es.
He
knows
wha
he
wan s
and
he knows app ox-
ima ely wha he cos migh
be
and
he
has a sh ewd idea
o
wha he can
a o d
o
pay
in ela ion
o
he bene i s which
migh acc ue.
The unknowns
a e
he
eal wan s
and
needs
o
he
o he
side. As a buye , as
he
agg esso ,
one
is in he posi ion
o ake he ini ia i e.
On
he
o he
hand
one
mus no be
s iden ly agg essi e in
one's
app oach.
I always eel ha
I migh disad an age
my
case by
pu ing
he
o he
side
on
he de ensi e.
My
s a egy is aimed
a
making he o he side
eac so
ha
I
can
asce ain
wha
hey
a e
seeking om a
deal so
ha
we
can
ge
down
o
he
undamen al
o
p ice,
s uc u e
and
he pe sonal secu i y
o
all he people in ol ed.
My
case
mus
be
one
o
ying
o
p o e
he
ad an ages
which will acc ue
om
such a deal.
And
i
mus
be emem-
be ed ha unless
he e
a e
ad an ages
o
bo h
sides a deal
canno s ick, i will all
apa .
In
o he
wo ds
he
case mus
be
p esen ed posi i ely
and
my
esponse
o
he
o he
side
is
o y o show
ha
objec ions
o
a deal
a e
no
alid. This
is
ob iously all a
ma e
o
pe sonal s yle
and
p e e ences.
On
he
o he
hand,
when I
appea
on
behal
o
a ic im
company, I
do
no
belie e in
adop ing
a passi e de ence.
The me e ac
ha
we
a e
si ing oge he
a ound
he
nego ia ing able is in i sel e idence
ha
we
a e
in e es ed
in a deal. The e o e,
my
ploy
mus
be
o y
o
ge he max-
imum
ou
o
ha
deal
ha
I can achie e
o
my
clien .
In
nego ia ion,
as
in
o he
si ua ions,
a ack
is
he
bes o m
o
de ence. I
mus
analyse
he
condi ions
and
he p oposi-
ions
ha
ha e been
pu
o wa d.
I
mus
denig a e
he
so
called ad an ages spel
ou
by
he
o he
side
and
I mus em-
phasize he s eng hs
o
my
own
case. These ac ics mus
be
used in
o de
o
squeeze
ou
o
he
deal
he
u mos
ha
I can o
he
bene i
o
my
clien . I
know
ha
he
p eda o
company needs
me
o
a he
needs
my
clien 's business.
I
he didn' he
wouldn'
be
si ing
a ound
he
able wi h me.
Wha I as a
nego ia o
mus
y
o
asce ain is how
a
he
is
p epa ed
o
go
and
whe he his ma ches
my
clien 's ex-
pec a ions
o
wha
he
hopes
o
ge
ou
o
he deal.
Bu no ma e whe he I
am
ac ing
on
behal
o
a p eda o
company
o
a ic im
company
I ha e
one
immu able p in-
ciple: I
y
o
main ain
e ec i e
con ol
o
he nego ia ing
p ocess. I ha e
ound
om
pas expe ience
ha
he mo-
men a
nego ia o
allows himsel
o
be
cas in o a secon-
da y ole he loses
g ound
and
yields ins ead
o
aking. Tak-
ing con ol
means
exe ing
you
pe sonali y
and
imp ess-
ing
i
on
he
o he
side.
One
does
no
ha e
o
be agg essi e,
one does
no
ha e
o
be
noisily domina ing.
One
has
o
use
a supe io logic
and
o
apply
i pe suasi ely.
The
a
o
nego ia ion is
he
a
o
pe suasion. You ha e
o
pe suade
people by shee weigh
o
eason
ha
you
a e
igh . Bu
in
doing
so
one
mus
ead
ca e ully. While you
a e
igh ,
o
a he while
you
a e
ying
o
con ince people
ha
you
a e igh , you
mus
no
lea e hem wi h
he
imp ession ha
hey a e w ong.
Tha
is
he
su es way
o
a deadlock. This
is
whe e he e is a emendous sub le y. You mus con ince
people
ha
you
a e
mo e
igh
han
hey a e. Ne e ne e
make he
o he
side eel
ha
hey
a e
coming second. The
success ul nego ia ion is
one
in which bo h sides belie e ha
hey ha e achie ed a ic o y.
And
i
is
you
job
as
a
31
nego ia o
o
win
mo e
o
he
ui s
o
ic o y han he o he
side.
In conclusion I would like
o
ead he ollowing quo a-
ion om
an
essay w i en by Si F ancis Bacon, Lo d
Chancello
o
England in he six een h cen u y
on
he sub-
jec
o
nego ia ion:
'I
you would wo k any man, you mus ei he know his
na u e
and
ashion,
and
so
lead him;
o
his ends,
and
so pe suade him;
o
his weakness
and
disad an ages,
and
so awe him;
o
hose ha ha e in e es in him,
and
so
go e n him. In dealing wi h cunning pe sons,
we
mus
e e conside hei ends,
o
in e p e hei speeches,
and
i
is
good o say li le
o
hem,
and
ha which hey leas
look o . In all nego ia ions
o
di icul y, a man may no
look
o
sow and eap
a
once; bu mus p epa e business,
and
so ipen i by deg ees.'
The
se en mos impo an cha ac e is ics
o
a success ul
nego ia o (USA su ey):
(a)
Ne e
lose sigh
o
he main issues;
(b)
Ne e
lose lexibili y;
(c)
Ne e
igno e he need o p epa a ion;
( d)
Ne e
ell a lie;
(e)
Ne e
y
o
be
' oo
cle e by
hai ;
( )
Ne e
ac in
an
insince e way;
and
(g)
Ne e
become impa ien .
Bes uu sleiding
F.J.H.
Le
Riche
Sen achem, Ma shall own, Johannesbu g
1982
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an
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